Ok ... just want to say we're up and processing again today...
Good morning Dr. Marvin.We just wanted to say that we took the medicine last night and this morning. Rich had a hard time getting us up to do it this morning, but he’s the most faithful pest any girl could have ever known. We are now at work. We haven’t gotten our work thoughts pulled together, but we’re here on time so that seems to be half the battle.
I’m sorry we’ve been so much trouble over the last couple of days. I know that we will talk about it tomorrow.
We’re still feeling grumbly, but not so much as we can’t move forward. Might write some today or we might surprise even us and try doing work.
Us
This is us again. We’re back to doing not much at work yet, but it’s still early … it’s just after 8 am. We need to be working at work today, and we’re going to make that a more serious goal than yesterday. Not that we weren’t serious yesterday, just we had more stacked up against us.
Let’s make our first stop go to work thing in 45 minutes. I will be in very good shape if I can be working at 9 am.
We just called Rich and told him that we’d gotten to work on time. He said – oh … that’s a good thing! Yeah I know. Just we have to get to the point that it’s ok with us.
Hmm, maybe with our available time we could try and figure things out again. I know we were set off by the thoughts that someone could erase our work. It was a turning point on Monday when we’d figured out how to slowly back things up. It helped just to get through the day … though like the previous night we’d been having suicidal thoughts.
Dr. Marvin talked to us both Monday and Tuesday. By the time the main crisis as far as backing up the work went we were already well into problems because of not taking our medicine. To be fair Jillian and her father did talk and it appeared she’d just been over at OH.com and most of that information has now been erased. We know that she still has a hard copy, but we’ll have to let things go as they might. Nothing to do about that now.
We know even if she gave the material over to her father that she’s read through it all. I’m not sure exactly what was there. I know there was some personal stuff, but also stuff on losing weight. Her bottom line concern was stated something like she was protecting her father, because someone business like could have Googled the information. To be fair they had to Google me not him, but the result is similar.
In this respect it was good that it came down.
There’s a sadness part to it too knowing that my life has to be more private at this moment. We sure would like Rich to finish with his divorce. That reminds me that we have to do something with the legal work. I think if Rich didn’t have an answer by now he was going to need contacting his attorney this morning. By the looks of it is already the 25th. There is only 4-5 more days to get the information that Rich’s wife has demanded.
Something is going to need being done soon. Like we might need a day off to gather information. I can’t help to think that that particular pressure might have something to do with the negative string we’ve been on.
March 29, 2009
Donald R. Brewer
RE: Case #07 DV 347 Sharon vs. Richard
Dear Mr. Brewer,
This letter is in response to the subpoena for production of specified documents, objects or tangible things. I do not have funds available for an attorney and you have given me an unbelievably short time to collect documents. If I need an attorney, your client will need to pay for it. I’m already $100,000 in debt without real estate or any other property or savings. I believe this information to be complete and accurate and constitute good faith compliance with the materials requested by said subpoena. I would like an explanation why these documents are required by your client. None of my personal information is relevant to Mrs. P and I request my accounts remain private and confidential to her directly especially due to my mental disabilities and that confidentiality include information on medical, psychiatric and other expenses, location of my apartment and unnecessary actions that might or already have caused emotional distress.
1. I have obtained birth certificates of all three of my children Maurice, Thomas, and Joseph. The cost of obtaining these records is $45, please reimburse.
2. See #3 - personal tax returns
3. I have enclosed a copy of tax returns for the last 4 years that I could collect through having filed with H&R Block.
a. My income at this date is $46,342 Gross
b. My income at this date is $31,290 Net
c. I am paid $600 per month from Rich and these payments began after April 2, 2007
i. $450 toward rent
ii. $150 toward cable
iii. Food/groceries (I eat minimally due to gastric bypass surgery)
4. I have no interest in any partnership
5. I have no stocks and bonds
6. I have no certificate of deposit or similar instrument
7. I do not maintain canceled checks, but I have enclosed a copy of my bank statements from my current bank at First National Bank of Brookfield. I have been banking here since October, 2008.
8. I have no savings account
9. I have no safety deposit box
10. I have no real estate
11. I rent an apartment for $900 at Brookfield, IL. I will enclose a copy of the current lease.
12. Automobiles or other vehicles
a. I own a 2006 Honda CR-V purchased in October, 2008. Please find the corresponding documents.
b. I have no race/sports cars, boats and or other recreational vehicles
13. I have no life insurance
14. I have no will, trust or codicil
a. I have a pension that I don’t pay, but which my employer pays monthly 3.5% of my salary
15. I have two school loans, major medical and psychiatry debt, and varies of other
a. Wells-Fargo School Loan - $35,128.79 balance ($281.46 monthly)
b. Nelnet School Loan - $17,598.76 balance ($145.55 monthly)
c. Atletico (rehab) - $120 balance
d. Bally’s (fitness/rehab) - $50 monthly
e. Capella University - $600 balance
f. Catherines – 0 balance
g. Citizen’s Auto (car payment) - $21,431 balance ($456 monthly)
h. Comcast - $161 monthly
i. Comed - $120 monthly
j. Dell Financial Services - $400 balance
k. Dental Insurance Withdrawn from salary - $37 monthly
l. Health Insurance Withdrawn from salary - $460 monthly
m. IL Collection Service *0255 (medical debt)- $175 balance – $25 monthly
n. Il Collection Service *7973 (medical debt) - $200 balance - $25 monthly
o. Kohl’s – 100 balance
p. Medical Business Bureau (psychiatric services debt) - $13,635 balance - $100 monthly
q. Medical Recovery Specialists (medical debt) - $1010 balance - $50 monthly
r. MJK Investments (rent) - $900 monthly
s. Netflix - $18 monthly
t. Rhapsody Music - $13 monthly
u. Sprint - $156 monthly
v. State Farm Insurance (Car insurance) - $75 monthly
w. University of IL – Chicago (UIC)- *8423 (medical debt) - $1164 balance $50 monthly
x. UIC - *0758 (medical debt) – searching - $50 monthly
y. UIC - *2801 (medical debt) – searching - $50 monthly
z. UIC - *9399 (medical debt) – searching - $50 monthly
aa. UIC - *2554 (medical debt) – searching - $40 monthly
bb. UIC – *0753 (medical debt) – searching - $50 monthly
cc. Walgreens Home Care (wheel chair & C-Pap machine) $52 monthly
dd. Walgreens Medicine - $95 monthly
16. I have no contracts
17. I have no bank accounts in foreign countries
Please be advised that I have mental disorders which affect my ability to process and cope. Please do not include me unnecessarily or for any length of time. I’m considered to be emotionally vulnerable.
Sincerely,
Ann M. Garvey
Cc: Rich
Rich’s Attorney
posted by Ann Marie @ 3/25/2009 02:39:00 PM
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